3 Sexual Roleplay Ideas to Get Kinky
Crushing on a character from your favourite movie or series? Or always wanted to dress like a superhero? Then roleplaying is totally up your alley. Embrace storytelling, acting and sensual fantasies all together in the wonderful world of sexual roleplaying.
What is sexual roleplaying?
Activate your imagination and assume the role of a character – any character – for a fun and adventurous sexual experience. The characters could be made up, or they could be from anime, movies, books or your own sexual fantasies.
You could really get creative and wear costumes, add a backstory and act how the character you’re roleplaying would act. And as always, you make up the rules on what aspects of roleplaying you and your partner/s would like to embody.
Lovangels’ 5 Sexual Roleplaying Ideas
Looking for some sexual roleplay ideas? Loveangels has got you covered.
Power dynamics - Master & Servant
Whether you enjoy power dynamic play in the bedroom or are interested in exploring it, the master and servant is a broad term for dominant and submissive roleplaying. One partner will act as the dominant giver, and the other partner will act as the submissive receiver.
Cue a sexy maid outfit with garters and a feather duster. Spend a few minutes telling your maid-playing partner to dust specific places. Think sensually – giving them places to dust where they have to bend over, lean over, or kneel down.
If you’re not into dusting and taking the “master and servant” too literally, try out other authoritarian and subordinate roles. A firefighter, police officer, doctor and patient, and boss and employee are all examples of power-dynamic roleplaying that you can get sensual with.
Strangers meeting for the first time
Remember the initial electric sensual tension when first meeting your partner? Rediscover the excitement by roleplaying as strangers.
Get creative with this sexual roleplaying. Construct your character fully – what’s their name, their occupation, their interests and unique quirks? How would they dress, speak, and move their body? What’s their favourite drink?
Roleplaying as strangers can really add some spark to a relationship and the bedroom. The newness of it all can be explosive.
If you really want to spice things up, choose a public space like a cocktail bar to meet up and start flirting.
Did someone order pizza?
Wearing only your lingerie, a T-shirt or nothing at all, you hear a knock at your door. Who could that be? You weren’t expecting anyone. Taking a peep at who’s there, you see a pizza delivery person. You invite them in and things start to heat up…
Similar to the strangers roleplaying, you pretend not to know one another. One person acts as a delivery person or repair person, such as a plumber, while the other person acts as the sexy house owner.
How to introduce sexual roleplaying
Before exploring the imaginary land of sensual roleplaying, communicating with your partner to make it a safe, consensual and fun space is vital.
If you would like to try out a specific sexual roleplaying idea, start an honest and open conversation with your sexual partner to see how comfortable they are to be a part of it. Have this conversation before getting kinky so they’re not thrown off guard. (Plus, you may discover some sexual fantasies they may have.)
Choose a safe word. Predetermine a safe word – it could be anything that all partners use – to indicate when the roleplaying scene has ended or if someone isn’t feeling comfortable at any point.
Communication is sexy. Talking may not seem like a sensual aspect of sex, but communicating during the experience can help guide the situation. Share what you enjoy, and what you would like your partner to do. Make it sexy with soft, sultry whispers or strong, commanding tones if you’re into the power-dynamic roleplaying.
The post-Big O chat. After the sexual roleplaying scenario, check in with your partner to hear their thoughts about the experience. What worked, what didn’t work or what they would like to try next?
Maintaining open conversations around sexual experiences, preferences, and comfort zones helps keep the experience consensual and exciting.
Ready to ignite your inner acting?
Sexual roleplaying is the perfect way to live out your sexual fantasies and act as someone else. Let your imagination lead the way, and remember to keep it fun and consensual!
