
How To Have Shower Sex
Shower sex.
Weâve all thought about it.
Who wouldnât want to combine two great things into one?
And, while itâs a nice idea, it does come with some difficulties.
But donât worry!
The Loveangels team is here to tell you how to have shower sex - properly!
A How-To Guide For Great Shower Sex
Turn Up The Heat
While temperature play can be fun, itâs hard for things to get hot and heavy when itâs freezing.
Itâs only when things get intense that we realise how much area a showerhead can cover.
Make sure to turn up the heat so that youâre not too cold when you get into it.
Get Shower-Friendly Lube
We know what youâre thinking, âBut waterâs wet - it works as a lubricant!â
Unfortunately, thatâs where we have to disagree.
Yes, water is wet.
But itâs not a lubricant.
In fact, it can make the vagina feel dry, making it difficult to properly enjoy sex.Â
Look at investing in a silicone lubricant that wonât wash away - but be careful not to spill it on the shower floor.
Itâs slippery!
Invest In A Shower Mat
A non-slip bath mat is absolutely vital if youâre planning on getting into shower sex.
Theyâre great for providing stable footing for you or your partner.
Rinse, Rinse, Rinse!
While lathering up your partner may get the mood going, slipping on soap or shampoo on the floor can very quickly kill that.
Make sure you rinse the floor well.
And remember - soap is NOT lube.
Bath Toys
These arenât the ones for kids, folks.Â
There are some pretty impressive toys out there that are completely waterproof, as well as things like butt plugs.
Donât Focus On Penetration
In this âhow to have shower sexâ guide, we canât stress enough how important it is to not focus on penetration.
Oral sex and exploring one anotherâs bodies are definitely things to look at when it comes to having sex in the shower.
Top Shower Sex PositionsÂ
If youâre determined enough, you could have shower sex in just about any position, but that doesnât mean itâs enjoyable.
Weâve got some positions in mind thatâll make shower sex enjoyable - and not lead to a trip to the ER.
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Standing Doggy Style
This take on the classic doggy style focuses on using the wall for support while keeping your feet firmly planted on the ground - or the shower mat.
How Itâs Done
Place your palms flat against the shower wall, leaning into it with your knees slightly bent.
Your partner can then penetrate you from behind with anything theyâd like, or focus on things like anal or oral sex.
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Sit And Ride
This works well for vaginal sex, but it can also work for anal sex if you angle yourself right.
How Itâs Done
Have your partner sit on the floor (or a shower bench if you have one) or the side of the tub if youâve got a standalone shower head.
This will allow you to straddle them, allowing for comfortable penetration while you hold onto them for a great ride.
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Leg Up
While itâs not necessary to have one, a footrest is great for this position.
How Itâs Done
Stand facing your partner, and bring one leg up to the footrest, bench or tubâs edge.
If you donât have any of those things, you can have your partner hold your leg up with one hand while they thrust.
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Got My Back
Similar to the Leg Up position, the big difference is that youâre not facing your partner.
It works for vaginal and anal penetration.
How Itâs Done
Stand facing the shower wall and rest your foot on the footrest, bench or tubâs edge.
Have your partner stand right behind you and hold your leg for extra support while they penetrate you.
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The Chairperson
Think reverse cowgirl - but for shower sex.
- How Itâs Done
Let your partner sit on the shower bench, tubâs edge, or the floor.
Straddle their lap, facing away from them, and position yourself for anal or vaginal penetration.
Place your hands on their knees or against the shower wall for balance.
Some Things To Keep In Mind
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Condoms
Shower sex may be clean, but it wonât protect you from STIs.
Make sure you use protection if youâre unsure.
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Consent Is The Most Important Thing
Show sex may not be for everybody.
Make sure your partner wants to (and enjoys) having shower sex.
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Things Get Slippery Outside Too
Not slipping in the shower is one thing, but donât forget that you can slip outside of the shower, too.
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Staying Wet For Too Long Can Be Bad
Damp nether regions can be a breeding ground for more than just your partner. Bacteria and fungi love warm, damp environments.
Make sure you clean off well to avoid UTIs or yeast infections.
Conclusion
If you want to know how to have shower sex, it boils down to four things:
Be careful.
Embrace trial and error
Listen to your partner.
Have fun.